The book Roundtable on Technical Leadership (SHAPE Forum Dialogues) by Jerry Weinberg is a treasure trove of interesting things that give words to feelings I've had during my work as a team leader and with other team leaders (and as a team member..).

The book appeals most to developers *not* acting as team leaders (how to influence without influence, in a way).

To whet your appetite, here's just a simpe list detailing the subjects covered in chapter five (Tricks arising from social inadequacy):

• Career Development Through Co-Dependency
• Using Technical Tricks to Avoid Social Situations
• Not Documenting Your Assumptions
• Not Asking for Help
• Preventing Others from Learning, by Being Impatient
• Failing to Notice Your Fault Feedback Ratio and to Do Something About It
• Not Documenting Why Choices Were Made
• Lack of Feedback Doesn't Necessarily Mean the Code Was Good
• Let Your Tools Do Their Work
• Keeping in the Stuff That's Corrected by Other Stuff
• Replacing One Big Mess with an Unending Series of Small Messes
• Give a Fresh Start When Needed
• Failing to Use Your Own Product